Counselor Lee Ho-sun delivered a sharp remark regarding the harsh words of a husband in a dieting couple.
In the JTBC broadcast of ‘Divorce Reflection Camp’ on the 19th, the psychological counseling treatment of a dieting couple was depicted.
On that day, the wife of the dieting couple said, “My husband has always been harsh with his words, and he hasn’t changed even after we got married. Even after becoming a couple and getting pregnant, he hasn’t changed. I thought this was a problem.”
She expressed her concerns, saying, “When we started living together, our house caught fire. We suffered about 100 million won in damages. After that, my husband and I opened a dog café. However, my husband wanted me to handle the marketing. I didn’t think about it, so I wondered why he wanted me to do the marketing. Eventually, the dog café went through the process of closing down. My husband blames me for that, thinking I didn’t do my part. That’s overwhelming for me.”
However, the husband expressed his dissatisfaction, saying, “I have resentment towards my wife regarding the closure of the dog café. I regret the lack of passion.” In response, counselor Lee Ho-sun advised, “You shouldn’t use your wife as a tool.”
Furthermore, counselor Lee Ho-sun delivered a strong message to the husband, who spoke harshly and forced sacrifices for success, saying, “Sometimes you need to cover their mouth. When words that reach the other person can inflict a fatal blow, raise your fist and cover their mouth.”
He continued, “Moreover, isn’t your wife pregnant? Speaking like that to a pregnant wife is an insult to the mother and also to the fetus. I call that fetal abuse.”
The husband explained, “I don’t want to seem like a bad person. I try to hide my inner self.” He added, “Our home wasn’t an ordinary one. My maternal grandparents were very well-off. My mother grew up in that wealthy family, while my father grew up in a completely poor household. As a result, there was constant friction internally. My father treated me very well, but he didn’t do the best he could as a head of the family.”
The husband recalled that he had lived with a fixation on money, even tearing off the seizure notice himself. He confessed, “I have an obsession that I need to succeed to protect my family.”
However, counselor Lee Ho-sun pointed out, “I think that has become distorted. The important topic of the child is missing. Aren’t you a husband and a father? But your mind is filled with business.” He continued, “You may not feel it yet because you haven’t held the child in your arms. But remember, consciousness creates existence.”
[Lee Se-bin, Star Today Guest Reporter]
