Singer Eun-jong has released a video containing indications of domestic violence, while Yoon Ddan-dan has refuted this.
On the 18th, Yoon Ddan-dan stated through social media, “The previous post regarding the affair lawsuit is not about winning or losing, and there was absolutely no physical relationship. In the 20 million won lawsuit, a ‘judgment’ of 10 million won was made depending on the degree of infidelity.”
He continued regarding the video posted by Eun-jong, “The video is a part of a two-hour argument. The scene shows me losing my composure and retaliating after enduring Eun-jong’s assault for about an hour, and later, I had to restrain Eun-jong, who was not calming down. Every time there was a dispute, Eun-jong accompanied it with curses, shouting, and abusive language like ‘Please die.’”
He stated, “There was a time when Eun-jong severely hit me while I was driving, causing her finger to fracture. As a result, Eun-jong had to undergo outpatient treatment for several months, and the next morning, I went to the parking lot to erase the black box footage,” adding, “Eun-jong also suggested psychiatric treatment, saying she couldn’t control her anger, and all tests showed normal results.”
He emphasized, “We did not have a normal marital relationship. There is no excuse for my assault, but I have never unilaterally assaulted her without any dispute.”
Yoon Ddan-dan revealed, “After Eun-jong took everything, I contacted her thinking it was the last time. I said that if this stopped, I would not take any legal action. Nevertheless, Eun-jong posted provocative videos in addition to what she had already made public, made contradictory statements, and kept imposing unmeetable standards, so I feel that further apologies would be meaningless.”
He added, “Many acquaintances who have observed us closely do not support me because they lack moral standards. They have seen me regret my past mistakes and strive to become a better person, which is why they continue to stand by me despite this significant wrongdoing.”
He continued, “It pains me that those who advised me have not listened to their words and have reached the point of threatening them with an extreme view of ‘being on Jong-hoon’s side.’”
Meanwhile, Yoon Ddan-dan and Eun-jong got married in 2019 after five years of dating, but they faced a breakup after six years of marriage. Eun-jong has claimed Yoon Ddan-dan’s infidelity and domestic violence, while Yoon Ddan-dan acknowledges the infidelity but claims Eun-jong’s verbal abuse, physical assault, overspending, and demands for music revenue.
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Hello, this is Yoon Ddan-dan.
I will only add the necessary parts.
In the previous post, the affair lawsuit is not about winning or losing, and there was absolutely no physical relationship. In the 20 million won lawsuit, a ‘judgment’ of 10 million won was made depending on the degree of infidelity.
The video posted by Eun-jong is a part of a two-hour argument.
The scene shows me losing my composure and retaliating after enduring Eun-jong’s assault for about an hour, and later, I had to restrain Eun-jong, who was not calming down.
Every time there was a dispute, Eun-jong accompanied it with curses, shouting, and abusive language like ‘Please die.’ (Post 5)
There was a time when Eun-jong severely hit me while I was driving, causing her finger to fracture. As a result, Eun-jong had to undergo outpatient treatment for several months, and the next morning, I went to the parking lot to erase the black box footage.
Eun-jong also suggested psychiatric treatment, saying she couldn’t control her anger, and all tests showed normal results.
There was also extortion regarding property.
When I was about to transfer additional music, I requested a written agreement regarding the divorce date, saying, ‘Until now, I have transferred property based only on promises, but since this is the last time, I need a written agreement.’ Eun-jong said that if she wanted a written agreement, she would expose me. (Post 6)
So I did not write the agreement, which proves that there was an implicit promise of monetary demands under the condition of not disclosing the facts of wrongdoing.
There was also a promise that ‘I would not make any further monetary demands,’ but (Post 7) (in January of this year), a few weeks ago, she brought up the previous agreement and demanded an additional 20 million won, and (Post 8) (in May of this year), after I couldn’t give her the money, this incident erupted.
Eun-jong directly spread the news to the press.
She told me that she met with a reporter, and even before this incident broke out, she said, ‘I hope there are no misunderstandings in the media.’ (Post 9)
Also, considering that the article was published simultaneously as soon as Eun-jong’s post went up, and the tip-off that ‘the informant was Eun-jong,’ it is difficult to see Eun-jong’s claims as true.
I sincerely find Eun-jong frightening, as she deletes everything to hide her wrongdoings and even removes comments that are unfavorable to her.
We did not have a normal marital relationship.
There is no excuse for my assault, but I have never unilaterally assaulted her without any dispute.
After Eun-jong took everything, I contacted her thinking it was the last time.
I said that if this stopped, I would not take any legal action. (Posts 10, 11)
Nevertheless, Eun-jong posted provocative videos in addition to what she had already made public, made contradictory statements, and kept imposing unmeetable standards, so I feel that further apologies would be meaningless.
Many acquaintances who have observed us closely do not support me because they lack moral standards.
They have seen me regret my past mistakes and strive to become a better person, which is why they continue to stand by me despite this significant wrongdoing.
It pains me that those who advised me have not listened to their words and have reached the point of threatening them with an extreme view of ‘being on Jong-hoon’s side.’
Finally, Eun-jong, I think further personal messages would be meaningless, so I leave this here.
I believe you know that you have not been upright in our relationship.
If you stop here, I will not say anything further.
How do you feel about this situation now, Eun-jong?
Has it turned out the way you wanted?
I have lost all my property and my honor.
However, if you stop here, I will not say anything further.
After 11 years together, I hope we can finish this in the mud, wash ourselves off, put on new clothes, and live good lives.
